* Posted by Osnat Bresler on April 7, 2009 at 12:18pm
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“My Habits PREDICT My Future* Do you need Habit Surgery?” - John Di Lemme
This question resonates in everything we do, think and feel. We seem to be driven by mental habits, emotional habits and even physical habits that seem to put us on automatic pilot. We fall into patterns of automatic responses to what we hear, see, feel and perceive. Thus, we often react in a way that we had not intended to. Much more critical is the fact that we do not even always understand our reactions. And most important to realize is that our habitual automatic responses frequently work against our better interests.
How we react to the forces working on us, creates our reality, because these reactions form a pattern of behavior. Our behavior affects our surrounding, the people we interact with, the challenges we face, the results we achieve. Therefore if we take a good hard look at our habits, we will be able to predict the reality we are creating for ourselves.
I`m sure that the above is obvious to anyone who has spent years working on developing their sense of self awareness by doing personal development workshops and practicing various body-mind techniques such as Chi-Gong,Yoga or the Alexander Technique. To some individuals, this may even be obvious without doing any work on self awareness. But is this obvious to everyone?
John Di Lemme`s question painfully reminds us that we are all surrounded by individuals who don`t have a clue.
Educator and philosopher, John Dewey, has addressed this issue with remarkable clarity in his introduction to to Alexander`s book “Constructive Conscious Control of the Individual” in which he advocates constructive education. He claims that we all enter everything we are trying to do, as an agency, ” But the hardest thing to attend to is that which is closest to ourselves, that which is most constant and familiar. And this closest something is, precisely, ourselves, our own habits and ways of doing things” conditioned in what we are trying to do. Modern science has enabled us to master unbelievably intricate tools, for achieving results. But the..”one factor which is the primary tool in the use of all these other tools – namely ourselves – in other words, our own psycho-physical disposition, as the basic condition of our employment of all agencies and energies, has not even been studied as the central instrumentality”. He goes on to ask whether this failure cannot be held responsible for finding ourselves incompetent to direct the history and destiny of man?
So, I totally agree that we have always been and always will be able to predict our future, on the basis of our habits. Because of the said above, I believe it is urgent for each and every one of us, to find our own preferred method for achieving “habit surgery”. This will enable us to better control our own automatic habitual responses, thereby better controlling the predicable results we can achieve in all spheres of our life and our business.
My own life experience has taught me that working the network marketing model has been the one most effective method in compelling me to face my own limiting habits and beliefs, and doing the “habit surgery” required for getting the results I want to get. Over the years, I have done a great deal of body-mind work to take charge of my automatic habitual responses. However, nothing has come close to the real life results that I have attained by becoming a network marketing professional.
The real beauty of network marketing is that while we are building our own business, and helping our team members build theirs, we are confronted with many of the life habits we have adopted. Through the support structure we have put in place, are able to help other people with the “habit surgery” that they choose to do, in order to get the results they want.